The Friend Zone

One thing I absolutely can't stand is when guys bitch about us women putting them in the friend zone, when they do the same thing to us. Guys are always saying "You say all guys are assholes or whatever, how bout checking the friend zone?!" 
Well same to you guys. 
Guys always complain about girls who cheat, or they are sluts, or whatever. Here's the thing boys; Check the friend zone because, a girl who is loyal to you and you can be with easily when you are not in a relationship, is the girl you should marry. 
On top of that, when a girl likes you and you like them back and tell them this it's like giving them false hope. You don't go: " I really like you, but the thing that is stopping me right now is (place lame excuse that differs every time here)" 
You either tell us the real reason straight up, or you freaking date us.
Cause it's like once you are in the friend zone you can almost never get out. I swear 95% of the time you will be stuck there with this guy or girl your entire life.
I am going through this friend zone crap with one of my best guy friends. He is a bit younger than me but when we hang out we are both able to de-stress and relax and just be ourselves. We can watch a movie or just lay on each other's beds and just chill. We work great together and my parents like him and my siblings like him, and I like him a lot. He says he likes me but won't date me. He wants to wait until after high school, but then he wants to work and maybe live out of town with his buddy. He also says he wants to wait until there is more time in our lives and I am less stressed because of what is going on in my life right now which i respect but it seems like one excuse leads to another. His and my friend J, told me he thinks its because if i haven't noticed he is never on good terms with his exes and that maybe the guy i like is afraid of losing me in his life. which makes sense. But, ugh, its so silly cause i really, really like him haha. 
What can you do i guess. 
So next time you consider putting someone in the friend zone put yourself there first and remember how it feels.