All in Result of One Night

I hate when parents involve themselves in your business.

I have been dating my bf for a little over a year and i love him to death
even if we do get into the odd argument we work through it.

Last night we had an argument because some bitch kept hitting on my bf.
She knew we are dating and did it just to tick me off and he didn't say anything to her.
Yes, I know I could have said something but it was my friends birthday and i didn't want
to ruin it for her. So the problem ended up escalating. My friend Ally was gunna stay the night at my place after so around 11 pm we decided to leave. We walked home from where we were
and ended up getting sick because of how cold it was outside.

So i get home and I am so mad i am in tears. My mom, of course, has to bring herself into the situation and put down my bf telling me i need to dump him and so on. This seems to be just worsening the situation. She already hates my bf and has always told me hes no good but she never sees or takes the time to look at the sweet side, she only ever sees the bad side.
She is always telling me hes gunna be abusive because of what happened in her past but I'm not her! She needs to understand this. Anyway, so she keeps putting my relationship down making me more and more upset.

Then my boyfriend shows up after dropping off his friend and i try talking to him about all this. He is the kind of guy who has his opinion and that's the only side he ll look at. I told him what was bothering me and he seemed like he was listening but i knew he still had his opinion in his head and nothings gunna change how he feels. We talked for an hour the whole time getting almost no where. It was getting tiring. So i gave him the hoodie he had asked me to return while i was at the mall, but i never ended up making it to the mall. I also gave him his key that he had left with me. He was tired and had work early, so I told him to drive safe, go home. He told me he loved me gave me a kiss on the cheek and said we would talk the next day.

All night i dwelled on the fact that things still hadn't been solved between the two of us. I hate when things aren't resolved between the two of us. I was anxious about what would happen if we didn't solve things.

This morning i woke up and realized that maybe ignoring him while all this was going on was not the best idea. I realized i should have just took him aside and told him that this Taylor girl who was hitting on him was bugging me and he probably would have been understanding and we wouldn't have gotten into an argument.

When i came downstairs and my mom asked me if i had dumped him yet i said no and told her she needs to keep her nose out of my business. She kept saying how she doesn't like him hes no good for me and how i should just leave him. I told her i was just as much at fault for not handling the situation properly and she rolled her eyes at me and told e to stop standing up for him. I was telling the truth, it was just as much my fault. She didn't care she just told me to shut up and that she doesn't want him around. She frustrates me a lot. It's not her relationship so she needs to keep out of it. I don't care about what happened to her that's her and i am me.

I'm hoping that me and him will fix things and maybe go skating at the outdoor ice oval later like we had planned. But for now all i can do is wait and hope things progress in a positive way from here.