Morning .......

So last night I posted a quick guide to what has been going on. To add a little to that me and my friend Soleil are now pen pals, though we fail at it slightly due to the fact that we never remember to always send the letter back until one bugs the other about the letter. I have also been trying to keep in touch with my non brother Travis. He is living in Edson, AB now and he isn't really planning on coming to visit. We try to call each other as much as possible but our different schedules and the time difference are quite the issue. But I honestly talk to him more than i talk to Myles, which yes i know, is sadly pathetic.


I'm trying to start doing Christmas shopping but i have a very low budget if i want to go to PG for Xmas, especially if i have to drive/bus/fly myself. So this year i was thinking i could make all home made gifts, that way they could mean something to each person. So far, I am going to make Paige and Tori Each a scarf, my friends get necklaces and I have no clue for mom, dad, auntie granny and Myles. I am hoping that the next check might be a bigger one so that i can still go to PG in November.


Even my poor dog Hunter is missing home. How do I know this? Since moving in with auntie and uncle in June, Hunter has not been allowed on any of the floors or in my room, which i feel is unfair because Bob (Granny's dog) can sleep with her. So last night Hunter sat outside my room all night with his face pressed to the door whining and crying. Poor thing :( we sneak him in sometimes but he's getting too accustomed to it and ends up on my bed while uncle is home. Thank god uncle hasn't seen or Hunter and I would be dead!


Well, off to psychology i go, which i don't really want to considering "aunt flow" has popped by for a visit starting this morning...god help me....tt4n

-J

Moving, College, Men....LIFE

So Since you all have heard from me last this is the long and short of it.
Myles and I = fixed issues for now, of course had a few arguments in between
School status= graduated and at OC College
Living Status= no longer at home in PG, now in Vernon
Job status= Lavington Shell (oh fucking joy)
Friend Status= pg- no one really talks to me, here- no one knows me therefore friendless

So I have zero friends, a shitty gas station job where some witch named Adel is trying to get me canned (fired) on a daily basis, and no comic relief from my wonderful sister Paige. Also, my aunt and uncle fight constantly, my aunt complains of my mothers economic status and sometime my granny is senile. Everyone here are huge over reactors though. They bought me a car and anytime i drive anywhere apparently they are dead set on me getting in an accident, the proof is in the words:
"You never texted us or answered the calls! We thought you hit a deer and died!" (i was still in class) - Granny
"We came because you never answered the calls or text messages, we thought you got bucked of and trampled and were dead!" (i was horse back riding, which is my second job,AND my favorite) -Auntie
"WATCH OUT FOR DEER THEY ARE ALL OVER THE ROAD!" (hello people i come from pg, you know the wildlife here and there part of BC)- Granny and Auntie
"It's going down to five today! There could be frost or ice on the road so be careful not to slide and cause an accident!" (hello people! i come from the SNOW and ICE capital of CANADA!!! a.k.a. PG!!! I took my N test in 4 feet of snow in a car that wasn't mine before it was plowed, if you slide or get stuck you fail! guess who has their N!) - Granny

Yes i realize they care and that's why they worry, but man was I ever wrong when i thought mom was the biggest worry wart ever.....like seriously i love them all to death but, CALM DOWN! no one is dying or getting in crashed with deer and slippy roads when its 5 degrees Celsius out and there is no snow or ice.

On a different note, my granny makes the best turkey pot pie! Just putting that out there, cause i eat it like every day, sometime twice a day! And i love how i almost never have a pile of laundry cause laundry is done everyday (i hate doing laundry) and i love coming home and having dinner ready to go especially after working 'til like ten pm at the shell. And i never have to do stuff alone cause granny and i can always do it together! So there are lots of plus sides too!

A down side i don't like is missing mom dad Paige and sometimes tori, yes even tori. and the fact that auntie is really against me travelling cause i have debts, and need to work and yada yada yada. I was hoping to go up in November but she doesn't even want me going for Xmas, so i still haven't brought it up.

Sorry that this post is everywhere but i thought i would catch you all up and just kind of threw some other random shit in there. Well long day tomorrow! Ta ta for now!

-J

One Last Chance...Make It or Break It...

So as you read in my last blog i had heard that my guy slept around. From the other info I have gathered, he did not. But he still did a lot of things to disrespect me. He was grabbing breasts and buts and offering up massages to the girls. So me being weak (yes i know i can't believe I admit to it either), I told him if he can't show me he can treat me the same way I treat him in one month's time, he's gone.
Some of you may wonder, "Why another chance?" Well I told you part of the reason, I am a weak and forgiving heart. But also cause I couldn't stand his crying. He was crying and asking me to please not leave him, so I told him fine, last chance or he loses me.
I also told him that I am not letting what he did do go. In fact I'm trying to make sure he will learn from his mistakes instead of trying to act like nothing happened. I'm going to try to get him to call me tonight, but he seems to be avoiding it.
Soooo... we shall see how things go.

Break Up With A Fake Fuck

So I know I haven't blogged in a while but i have been super busy with exams and school. I finally got a job though which is good. I got a job at Trend Setters Hair Salon And Day Spa as a receptionist. Hopefully it will take my mind off of what is making me so upset this very day.
So I found out this morning that Myles cheated on me during a party he went to. He told me I wasn't invited and couldn't come, but used me as a ride at 2 in the morning. He said he didn't do anything with any girls, which I found out was a lie. I was told by Lia that he smacked some girl's ass. So i got mad and called him on his lies last night and I told him i was reluctant, but i would give him one more chance. Then this morning I was told my my friend Iris he did a lot more then that. He grabbed some girl's breasts, grabbed many peoples asses, offered out sensual massages, and worst of all....slept with someone.
I am so hurt and mad that I sent him a shit load of text messages telling him how he is utter SCUM!! If he admits to it then maybe he will get some Mercy.
He tells me he loves me then goes and does shit like that. What a fake. I make him my world but he cant even bother to do the same..... :'(

Wonderful Vancouver Trip, Mother Daughter Time

Well It's been a long time since the last time i blogged so there was a lot going on. I went to Emily Carr Institute to get my art portfolio looked at. We (my mom and I) stood in line for what felt like an eternity, people were extremely rude and budged ahead and everything else. There was one or two nice people in the whole line, that I met at least. And I feel like the whole trip was almost for nothing cause the lady viewing my work only liked two pieces. whatever it was a good experience and i can learn from it.
We spent the weekend at auntie Julie's house and I got to spend time with my cousin Carly. While we were there we went to the movie Burlesque which was amazing. And I also got all my Xmas shopping done, which required a lot of work in the area of thinking up a gift for Myles. My cousin Carly thought of it, which was good cause I may even still be looking if she hadn't. Also we played the Ouija board, which was a bad experience but I'm only going to talk about positive ones. Also I got to see China Town Vancouver for the first time. It was...interesting... there were a lot of smells and things to look at. I got to try some new foods when we went to lunch in a traditional Chinese bakery restaurant. After all the excitement it was nice to sleep.
On the Sunday we were there my mom and I went to visit my Auntie rose, Uncle Ron, and cousins, Troy and Michelle at their place. They got a new dog named Jasper and we had rice and fish for dinner. Auntie rose also looked at my portfolio and she loves pictures of flowers so i ended up giving her one of my photos as thanks. The next morning, or noon to be accurate, while everyone was out and auntie rose went to work for an hour, mom and I went for sushi! the place we went had the best Sunomono salad it was scrumptious. That was our last day there and it was a good one. The whole trip was super great. I love spending time just me and mom!

Trouble With Wisdom

So tomorrow is Friday, which means I'm getting my wisdom teeth removed. They have been bothering me so bad that I finally decided I would allow the dentist to remove them. It was so bad I couldn't even eat. So I go in Friday morning, 11am to be exact. I have to take certain pills before I got in. I had to also take some 24 hours before so I started them today at 11am and man have they sent me for a loop. I feel foggy kinda but I guess that's sorta how your supposed to feel. So I'll be all big and puffy faced for a week or so. But I guess it's better than pain!
On the awesome side Myles comes home on the 9th and I'm super excited. I haven't seen him in a while and I miss him a lot. Especially since I'm quite stressed out with school right now. The drama teacher I'm pretty sure hates me and today Paige was super mean even though I tried really hard to be nice to her, there is so much biology homework I could drown in it and well, Dad isn't being super supportive. So I really need some time with Myles to relieve the stress. That's why I'm super glad I am at gramma's for the night. We watched a couple movies and soon we will head to bed.

Life, What to Do With Mine.

So today the colleges came to my school and now I'm quite puzzled. You see the first person we talked too was from Emily Carr School of Art and the guy seemed really real, unlike the other colleges whose presenters seemed really fake. He even tipped us off on some pretty cool things to do do get into the Emily Carr school. I think it is something I should look into since I like that but I'm not nearly as good as most people I know. The other option for me is my career choice of Psychology, I figured at first that I would go right after High School and be done in 7 years and have my PH.D. But now I'm not as sure as I was before. I was going to go to the Okanagan College and stay with my Aunt and everything would be all set to go. I have decisions to make now and not a lot of time to make them.
The thing that puts me down the most is my dad repeating to me that I can't in life. I can't be like my sister whose going to become a Veterinarian, I'm not going to become a Pharmacist like he wants me too. He thinks and voices all the time that I'm never going to go anywhere in life. He told me to day that I wasn't going to become a vet like Paige or a pharmacist and I'm going to flip burgers at McDonald's for the rest of my life.
I thought parents were supposed to support you in everything you do not put you down because you won't become what they want you to become. Not put you down all the time about decisions you make in life for your future. At least mom is being helpful and supportive, which I am thankful for.